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Available Now!
Beyond Orgasm: Dare to be Honest About the Sex You Really Want
by Marty Klein, Ph.D


Ever wonder if your sexual fantasies, desires, and past experiences are "normal"?
Ever wish you could tell your sexual partners what you really want in bed?
Is performance anxiety undermining your sexual enjoyment?

If so, this is the book you must read.

Starting in childhood, we ALL learn that our sexuality is bad, something that we must hide. As adults, this belief leads us to reject essential aspects of our sexuality. We then assume our partners will reject our sexuality as well, and so we keep sexual secrets--about our bodies, our preferences, our fears, and our past.

As a result, we never feel accepted for who we really are. And whether we function just fine in bed or not, we second-guess ourselves--am I a good enough lover? Is what I want OK? Am I normal?

Beyond Orgasm answers these questions in an innovative, thought-provoking way. Not just your usual self-help book, it guides you to overcoming these concerns altogether--helping you accept your sexuality, approach your partners with confidence and relaxation, and become involved with a wider range of your own eroticism. The result? More sexual pleasure, play, variety, and intimacy than you ever thought possible.

Filled with stories about real people and their sexuality that will touch you, enlighten you, and entertain you, Beyond Orgasm is written by a master therapist, writer, and teacher. And Marty isn't afraid to challenge common ideas that he says contribute to people's sexual problems:

* Dr. Phil is MISTAKEN about what is and isn't normal.
* John Gray is MISGUIDED about men and women being from different planets.
* Dr. Laura is MISINFORMED about pornography being a form of infidelity.
* Patrick Carnes is MISLEADING about sex addiction.
* Andrea Dworkin IS JUST PLAIN WRONG about how women feel about oral sex.

Beyond Orgasm is now available in local stores. To order a copy from Amazon.com, click here
Honest, helpful, clinically sound answers to questions such as:

* Why, sexually, does "fear of rejection begin with rejecting ourselves"?
* How can people talk to their partners about embarrassing sexual things, like STDs?
* What are the four categories of common sexual secrets?
* Why is masturbation one of the biggest secrets sexual partners keep from each other?
* How can couples negotiate sexual differences effectively?
* How can we accept our partner's (or our own) sexual past?
* Why is the Mars/Venus idea wrong--and destructive to relationships? Sexually, are men and women really more similar than different?
* Why is Viagra the wrong approach for most people?
* How do most self-help books make people feel worse, not better? How is Beyond Orgasm NOT the typical self-help book?
* What popular myths undermine sexual pleasure and intimacy--and how does Beyond Orgasm challenge them?

published by TenSpeed/Celestial Arts
paperback, $14.95

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